U would think being friends 1st, things would have been great in a relationship. I was really into him and he was really into me. I haven't had the total disappearing thing yet, it's more the detachment thing going on rite now and it's driving me crazing cos I just don't know if he's simply distracted or disinterested. While they ' re usually fearless and up for anything, sickness takes everything out of them. 2years we've been having a 1 st friends with benefits , 2 nd yr companionship he calls it . But when the person I am spacing from starts to cling to me because of the break, I get worried. I'm great friends with an Aquarian guy who's 9 yrs younger to me. I am addressing that and we had a while where only 1 argument and I didn't run, he talked me out of it. I love him and I don't know why because he doesn't do much to deserve it. You are absolutely right that you can have them IF you play their game. However, don't you dare go around thinking you're the one who will change him? 2 wks ago he satisfy he's scared and didn't text for a wk. He was his usual lovable self in his reply but still has disappeared. He could do what he wanted but when it came to me it was so different. im thinking maybe he just wanted a fling cuz he knew i was married and now that he knows ill be getting divored e freaked? His very nature is aloof and hot/cold. Thing is I was so busy with my own life that I was very aloof in the beginning. That must be their MO. No matter how I feel about them. so i let him go, and 4 months later he's back because we do have an unusual thing going. My patience is wearing thin. I have been doing this for 3years. Then we got intimate. He travels a lot but he would always send me a text here and there to tell me he was thinking about me. Its been 2 days since his exam is over. We were friends for a year before that. If youre getting touch signals from him often, its a sign that he wants you back in his life and possibly wants to ignite the relationship. Capricorn Men With Cancer Women - Are They a Match? He is on a mission with something at the moment, which started a couple of days b4 we last met, and he asked me to help him with it so we have been in constant contact during the last week for that reason BUT nothing else seems to be happeening. a woman needs love and affection. His strength at avoiding conflicts gives her peace and security. The aquarius guy has everything we need to keep us interested forever. He always talked about putting a ring on it. Women often blame the man for doing his own stuff and not giving her enough attention, and then she just jumps to the conclusion that he has no interest. Heres the thing, we got into it a few days ago, but we talked it over. I'm always worried that when I talk to someone, I may lose interest (not in a mean way, just in a way that there is a whole huge world out there and there's a lot to experience.) Aquarian men love to prod and analyze in conversation, even during small talk, so something is off if hes not doing that. I can play that game for a short time, but my patience is gone, and I've had enough. I have been in relationship with Aries man for six months he told me he would never leave me . An Aries woman is famous for her egoistic attitude too. A mellow Aries may ignore you, but an aggressive Aries will tell you to shut up and mind your own business. I live my life with or without him. He analyzes everything; social situations included, and is sensitive to how he comes across. I know that regardless of if I like someone he is not required to like me. I cant change who I am. We finally started going on dates and having sex (magical!!).. Pisces Man and a Capricorn Woman: Are They Compatible? Love is not made of uncertainty and if you want your aries man back, he will likely come. hes charming but he has sharp tongue! For more information about this match, leave your comment below. They act on gut feelings leading to many impulsive decisions.. but then when he come again, hed prefer hang out with my friend and her bf while im sick at work! I've noticed that all the Aquas who have taken interest in me were very quiet about their feelings and distanced themselves(from my best friend to a guy I've know 10yrs), but stalkerish at the same time. Dont expect her to lower her head in front of anyone. They are smooth heart criminals. Anyway, we started spending a lot more time together & the sex was amazing. Youre in or your out, but unfortunately, I told him, you have lost the opportunity to make this decision as I am making it FOR you. Anyway, me and my Aqua guy chatted for a couple of hours every night for a week and were flirty, funny and I felt wow, I am falling for this guy and I haven't even met him. he dumped me! These females are very strong and competitive so if you are the kind of person whose ego gets hurt easily then you should keep a safe distance from an Aries woman. so, i decided i'd had enough of his juvenile behavior and actually told him i didn't want to be friends anymore. Why don't u just say it..its just that ur emotionally immature..even detached from them..i mean all of us women are al.ike right? Thank you Thank you Thank you! Does he send you flowers? Its not only an astrology thing. It will be unusual for you to be chasing someone. He stops returning calls. But what about when he hurts me? While this gives them a childlike quality that is very endearing, it also means they can act pretty childish. So, they are very unpredictable men. as said in the above comment, she'll just run away and chose to be with someone else. I too am 45 and have been separated for over two years. Mine was always has been and says he never slept with anyone else, he just had no one to listen. To be honest, almost all men come back. They'll realize what they lost after your gone and you'll never again be treated like a doormat by this guy again. I've been dating this Aquarius man for 6 months. Or that something came up abruptly. Thus sometimes, they dont act on logic but a mixture of anger and the urge to win. Learn how your comment data is processed. He even sent a telegram that it was over and he didn't want to see me anymore, apparently not realizing that I already made that decision by cutting him out of my life. He had 2 long relationships be 4 me & guess who caught all the hurt they did to him. So, he used to tease me a lot and make fun and the banter was great though not personal. The response I got was" I understand, I just need some time to figure things out. I am a Leo, so I will lick my wounds in private, him never knowing that he has put a stain on my heart and I will move on.:(. i feel what was a close special friendship disintigrating and wonder what i did or said wrong. He persued me, was all over me for the first 8 mths. Are you feeling crazy right now as your Ram partner is on his ignoring spree? Pay attention to what he says when both of you finally sit down to talk. For me, as a very strong-minded Aries woman, it started off as a challenge for me to see if I could actually follow another person and allow him to be mostly "in charge". Next, he avoids making any concrete plans at all. Like - you can't make time for me, well I'm going to give you all the time in the world, - like forever. 8. I am happy not see him every week, or talk every day, that would suit me, but I do need to see him sometimes! this man is the love of my life. Capricorn Female Disappearing Act?: Hey Guys, Wanted To G - dxpnet Required fields are marked *, Have you ever dated or been into a guy and had. :) as if nothing happened. Cause still to this day he still the same non caring attitude just for his self only. Her optimism dispels his pessimism. If you want an Aries to shower you with comforting words, you probably pick the wrong person. guy from work first initiates "us" going out. Wow that was so on point! But he doesn't, in fact we talk more. You know it's solid when he starts including you in his business plans and vision. However, Aries men aren't the best lairs so I'm sure he'd slip up soon, just keep guard for the signs. They are not just negative qualities. However, over the coming months we chatted. How To Know If An Aries Man Is Rejecting You (15 Signs) To find out that over the 10 years he has regretted disappearing on me was confusing. As a passive feminine sign, Taurus men are receptive. While that's typically the case, there are three zodiac signs Aries will likely regret breaking up with. Surely a person gets tired of always going back to a passive interest. But when he does text me he says really nice things but idk what else to believe.. i have never felt this way for no other guyy :( i need help. They will send txt's to you one minute saying how he can't wait to see you and the next he pulls a dissapearing act while he's dating others. Not all, but there are several Aries guys tend to play games with the woman he has feelings for as he needs to know if she is exactly what hes looking for. please. Watch to see if he pays attention to you and your needs or is he just doing things at random. Begin the first sign of the zodiac, Aries is young at heart. he was all about it the first 2 months I was blown away, i left my taurus boyfriend to explore things with him. I am used to men chasing me, not me contacting a guy to see if he wants to meet up. They are the first signs in the zodiac so often are referred to as the child of the circle. It's like he feels me pulling away and he charms his way back in and then disappears again.can't take much more.Thanks. I mean I'm definitely interested in him but I'm really not sure how he feels abt me(I'm an Aries grl). They need someone exciting and who can keep her excited all the time. They are quick to retaliate when they are hurt and will usually react in anger. He is verbally respectful, caring, sweet and will do anything to help me and anyone else. Due to the differences, they both need work to find the harmony in their emotional connection. I would have to say to the girls dating these men, I play the WIFE that doenst provide many emotional needs so he wonders to talk to you but don't get to involved cause I/Aries am the one he has always wanted to be with but life/stress take a toll and you are the "outlet" fantasy to escape from the reality he really wants but can't always make work. :-). Pisceans frequently have escapist inclinations and need alone time to replenish their energies. He was always spontaneous with everyone is his life but I quite liked the spontaneity as I can be too. He will rather travel with his family and friends than travel with you. Aquarius guys want what they can't have. After dating for a while I felt like he wasn't making me a priority in his life and my reaction was to take off and run. He lived in USA and just visited London about 7 times a year, I thought I don't want to meet and fall for you and then never get to see you. Yet at 45 I find myself wanting this man more than I have ever wanted any man that I feel compelled to try to understand him (hence visiting websites such as these, MAD!. Aquarius typical disappearing act by: Pissed off Cancer . I havent heard from him since that day, i called several times and no response. Should I leave him alone to 'potter' and may be wait 4ever to hear from him or should I send the txt to find out where I stand now? Don't read too much into what he says. i think maybe he can wait to hold me and it's just all a load of bullshit!! So, if he makes you a part of it or suspends it even for a little while for you, you're important to that man. They are natural leaders who often choose to go their own way instead of following the pack.