Latest when you realize that people like this never change. But articles like this remind me that its all bullshit. It’s driving me insane. We all are survivors and we all have each other <3 Thank you so much for sharing and thank you for being the angel that you are too xxxx. There are so many factors to getting an ex boyfriend back that you can easily be overwhelmed and end up ruining your chances with him right from the outset. I have a hard time believing he’s just a terrible guy with a terrible pattern because he was married for 17 years, and even though that obviously ended, his ex (who I’ve met once) doesn’t seem to have much bad to say about him, other than that he was never very romantic. So happy that this post helped! Your email address will not be published. its more likely that he is a complete and utter ARSE who has met someone who is challenging him in a different way … but dig deep down in your gut .. do YOU think he will change??? Love you and hope we can meet in person one day ? It has been hard I cannot deny that, but one thing is for sure… it DOES get easier ladies! I’m going through the same thing. They’re already talking (jokingly) about marriage. I know she means nothing to him but I’m still heartbroken. Remember that you are the unique person your ex fell in love with. thank you so much for your post. It also sucks because the man I’m with now is so incredibly wonderful, I love him so much. I want to believe I can change. I’m 27. I didnt follow thru with it because hes used me so many times for sex and fed me all that “love of his life bullshit”. Wow, Natasha, thank you! So let’s get into my 3 killer secrets! Most of the time when an ex … I had started to feel better but seeing them together hit me like a train and I felt physically sick. Thank you for taking the time to not only share, but to help more people than you know feel less alone. His response was to start an affair and I divorced him. Yes, I still have hurt. I had had enough and I told him to get the rest of his things and leave. There's just one problem. The best thing to do is to remind yourself that the only way a relationship with him could ever work out is if you were okay with an unhealthy and non-mutual relationship. We fought, broke up, he reappeared in my life after his 2 rebound relationships failed (claiming things will be different), he never really gave me a sincere apology for his/kids/extended family’s behavior, he brought emotional baggage from his 2 rebounds as he crossed his moral and emotional grounds with how he used them, and allowed his kids and extended family continue their bull poop. NO! To those women – you are better off without a lying, cheating, potential std carrying jerk. Not only because it helps me remember that the guy with the grandiose gestures is the same guy who called me an effing weirdo when I asked if he was still hung up on his divorce (he talked about his ex a lot). You are not alone – thank you for being a part of this tribe. I was going thru it yesterday on the 4th of July .. Nearly 5 years together and now hes off with someone else. It’s a beautiful thing what a new perspective can do. He has cheated on her untold times since they got together – I should be relieved I am not there but the difference in the person I was with to the person he is now has me so lost and confused – I am with someone else now who treats me like a queen and I am so grateful but I feel stuck emotionally like I cannot believe this person was in my life and I loved him and feel shame to still have some feelings – is it love or my ego cannot let it go? This is one of the most well pieced articles I have read and it offers great comfort when going through such situations. So thank you so much <3! Can I email you? I’d like to think he is full of crap and will break her heart too. I will write more about this soon and am so happy to help in any way. I told him I’d trust him if he was telling the truth. I know it would have only boosted his ego to think I was still bothered and that was the motivation to not make contact. You are loved, understood, appreciated, valued, supported, and never, ever alone. I always had an instinct that there was something about her. I just don’t have the discipline to allow myself to indulge in any kind of spying or internet stalking. Thanks Diana xoxo I’m proud of and happy for you that you’re out of that situation and having your own back now. He told me today he is thinking about asking this “girl” he has been sexing and seeing since we broke up to be his girl on VDAY. Praying for your best , Just came across your replies on this topic, you are soooooo right…..I have been wondering about a lot of the things you discussed here before reading what you wrote and I agree…..”different is only different until it is not” and all the same traits come back, you can only hide so long, from the REAL YOU!!! I just read this and wanted to burst out crying. Get Natasha’s 7 life-changing & Essential Boundaries straight to your inbox.Sign up to receive exclusive content, updates + more. He is the same person he was before I met him, the same person he was when I was with him, and the same person he will be for the rest of his life. This week he decided he wants to be better and cutoff all contact with me leaving all hurt again while stating he wants the best for me. All that’s going to do is get you upset and put a visual in your brain. I started to become a nag. It will haunt you in the end. It’s getting better but I miss him still so much…not sure I’ll ever get over it. Help me! He commented on it, before just a crush, now I love her. My ex broke up with me 3 months ago. Yep. Please help! Word for word how I’ve been feeling. I know how you feel. He regretted the mean things he said to me and told me he would wait however long to make it work. Keep treating yourself well and just know that you’re not alone. Add on his extended family always found something ‘wrong’ with something I said or did and would complain to him. How could he be? It’s still raw, even after 2 months. Stay strong, turn inward and keep having your own back. He hurt me immeasurably. Then nothing…. 8. I didn’t listen. Change those bad habits and behavior but don’t change who you really are. I picked him up through all of this low times. We all deserve better than that. when we married he was 220. It is amazing how everyone that has been in a relationship with these narcissistic ass holes think about and feel the same way. Thank you so much for taking the time to share and for being a part of this tribe. That is how I’m feeling right now. You are more powerful than you will EVER be heartbroken and damaged. I was there for him through it all. ?????? I feel like I’m a bit happier and stronger now compared to who I was before. It was word-for-word what I needed. I would never speak to him again . Could you rewire your moral code and magically transform into someone who ignores responsibility? His job meant he worked away so for the first 4 years we were married I saw very little of him. I suspect you will know the answer. Now this can be as little or as big as you want but the key here is to change something about you for the better. This is totally trueeee and there will come a time in which you will get confirmation that he is an a**hole. It is so hard to not doubt yourself but I’m stressed to the core wondering if after I left him he really did change for the better or is this woman so awesome that she is bringing out the best of him. He really puts his new girl above and beyond over me. You’re not alone. I have yet to see a post ANYWHERE, on any site, from someone saying that their EU s.o. It hurts because it looks like he is doing all the things i begged him to do with her and it seems they been talking for awhile now. I’m not going to stop there because I know that’s not enough. Blessings happen on God’s time and God’s time alone. It doesn’t mean he’s changed. And, I want to know how you got over all this. You’re not alone xoxo. I was hurt, but accepted it. Like I wasn’t young enough (I’m still 12 years younger than him! You’re not alone. The thing that I can’t let go of right now is how similar she seems to me. I was stalking their common happy life and their trips abroad, adventures and comments how people complimated them for being so such a good couple. Thank you ENDLESSLY for sharing this! Natasha is SO right! If you’ve always wanted to do your hair or makeup in a certain style then do it or if you’ve always wanted to buy that certain outfit then do that. This made my day! He says that their both happy and he say he is “changing” his ways. (Looking back on that birthday dinner, a lot of the things he said and did felt like a send-off. He changed everything when I left. I do feel like he took everything I said about him being emotionally unavailable, not being patient with my own insecurities, communicating (which he admittedly did not do), etc & creates a better man. Im going through the same situation. Could this truly be love? I started comparing myself and blaming myself for being too strong and outspoken (stupid, I know). After the first cheating incident he never made me feel sure of myself. I read this a while ago and found it so encouraging to those who are facing that internal doom of hearbreak. XO. He cheated and lied through out the whole relationship. He text me in November 2018 telling me he loved me more than I realised and had wanted our relationship to work out more than anything..blah, blah, blah..what an arse! I was with him for 5.5 years, how did he move on so quickly, and even more devastating how is he able to cut me off completely ( he changed his number and blocked me on Facebook ) in a matter of weeks and jump into a potential marriage? i don’t have him he blocked me but sometimes friends tell me.. he said it to me months before the breakup how bad is this girl i don’t believe he end up dating her after 6 months still hurt lil bit but honestly i’m so much better without him for 3 years he lied to me about everything and cheated on me and i forgave him just because his sweet words i sometimes now think he didn’t even love me and it was all lie even if i was his really longest relationship he cared a lot about me but didn’t stop lying !! After many unanswered calls and texts that weekend, I was a confused bundle of nerves. And just recently, posted pictures of them in his bedroom looking all sweet and happy. He got straight on Tinder after I kicked him out and about twenty days in met and moved in shortly after with a girl the complete opposite to me – its humiliating how opposite to me she is, its humiliating that I still get upset about this – he was a stepdad to my daughter and he just abandoned her and then went into this single life with this new girlfriend and they now travel together and have this young life together with no responsibilities. And I’m looking forward to the post! Finally he married his affair partner and they have been together 20 years. I was in a 7 year relationship with what I thought was the love of my.life. . xx. Thank you Natasha xxoo I feel good and I know I’ll be ok and stronger than ever! He swore he was. He was complaining to others he needed sex and I wasn’t able to. Most relationships can be saved after a breakup, but few ever are. Thank you Natasha you saved me with this website in my darkest days xxx. He committed all his time to his son and football. You care because you are curious, and that is understandable. It’s hard now and I know how painful it is, but trust me when I say it will be the same pattern. But no. He came off as a very caring, thoughtful, committed guy but ran once conflict arose. I was married for 25 years and he cheated on me twice and the second time he walked out, he never looked back. Sometimes I found out about it. He doesn’t post her on is social media though. I messaged him saying, You and your girlfriend have no shame and effing insensitive. Your post will help me out so much as I know that I’m not alone when it comes to situations like this! Time is the best thing you have on your side at the moment so use it wisely!!! xx, Natasha, you hit on so many feelings we experience when the phenomenon known as “our ex has moved on” occurs. We were each others first love. Don’t let his new relationship change your self-image. From the bottom of my heart, *thank you* my dear sister. We had problems after I regrettably cheated during our 7 years married. He is flashing his new life all over social media like this is the best thing. His last conversation he kept saying that he is “so sorry to do this to me” and that I “made him a better man” but that his new girlfriend ” loves him in a different way” and he plans to marry her. so he started going to the gym daily and over a year time he lost 110 lbs and looked amazing. You have to ask yourself in the end if you ever take this person back after all the times he disrespected and devalued you.. in my case, I had the option to a few months ago.. he came back to me claiming he had changed, and he might have been telling me the truth.. but I have enough self love and respect for myself to know when I deserve better. If you play it right, you will have your ex back in your arms again. You are a gem. I have this post booked marked in my phone, as always up in my background pages on my internet- it serves as my daily (read: 683848 times a day ) reminder that this new girl is not better than me and is not reaping all the benefits of what I worked on with my ex. Despite all of the craziness I just believed if I hung in there it would prove to him that I am a ride or die girl and I truly love him for better or worse. LIVING WITH A BROKEN HEART: HOW TO GET OVER A BREAKUP, AM I A BAD PERSON? He still does the “basics” for my daughter but is still not an involved dad. You found out that your ex is in a rebound relationship! Who needs validation and cannot handle a challenge. We were very much in love but towards the end fighting a lot–mostly due to my “insane jealousy.” I feel like a loser that ruined it all. Now my whole life has been about trying to prove to him that I am not a screw up. I don’t understand how you can just stop loving someone after 18 years. She gets taken to all the family events he never once took me to a family event. You’ve been through the hell that is a breakup and if that wasn’t enough, you’ve just found out that your ex is dating someone new. My ex did the same, got with a new girlfriend and plastered it all over Facebook like a pair of silly little school girls (looking back very cringy). He isnt seeing her anymore but gave her one more ride to work, dropped his phone and she saw them from when they were dating. She gazes at him when he speaks. 14. I’m sure his new girlfriend pays for the apartment. Turned out the guy I was dating, was dating someone else…there were some red flags, but every time I brought them to his attention, his response was there was no one else and he wanted to stay with me….fed me all the right lines, and I fell for him so hard I gave him the benefit of a doubt. xxxx. He still goes around talking about me to the point that people think we are together. A huge thank you from me over in the UK. Why he kept texting me like nothing was wrong weeks after he posted those photos. Natasha Adamo, LLC. Or why the other person he betrayed would enable it and stay knowing what happened. He showed me his real self and it was not attractive. If you feel that a mistake has been made, and you genuinely feel that you want to get back together with your ex-boyfriend, then you have every right to fight for your love, even if he has a new girlfriend. I’m officially done with the parts of me that try and excuse things saying that he just needs to figure things out. How is it possible for my ex to be engaged to this new girl less than three months after we broke up? And with his new girlfriend, don’t give in to the compare game. She has no clue what is going to come her way. People communicate who they are from the get-go. Fast forward a few years later, I ran into him and his new gf of 3 months. He said he felt bad about disappearing but that it got very serious very fast so he didn’t know how to explain it to me. Then after midnight, I stopped. In my case I had no idea he cheated on me , the break up was sudden , he was out late one night after training at the gym I fell asleep at home waiting for him when I woke up he was not home yet , so I Called him several times he didn’t answer , so of course I got worried , my first thought was his he ok , then when I kept calling and he didn’t answer I thought of maybe he is with a girl , finally when I got him on the phone is was about 1 in the morning , he said he was out with friends , long story short we were arguing as to how he should of at least messaged me or called saying he will be going out after the gym , instead he made me worry and think the way I did , he said that night that he doesn’t like it when I call him that much or ask him who he is with and that if I don’t like the way he treats me then we’re not meant to be together , so I automatically took that as him breaking up with me , and so now it’s been 7 months since the break up and the girl he left me for is exactly 7 months pregnant , and they are engaged. they did all things that i didn’t do. I’m changing to better myself, not to show off for anyone. I keep thinking he’s going to be the amazing man I knew during the first few months with her and she will get the best of him. It’s his loss. But how can he live with the amount of hurt he put me through. You’re not alone Millie <3 x, I am so lost, my ex and I broke up beginning of December and literally two weeks after that he told me he was seeing someone new and that they already had sex. Not sure if anyone is still reading the comments section, but what if he leaves you for an ex? If I can get through it, SO.CAN.YOU sister. You have no idea how much I needed this. I bookmarked this post and will come back to read it every time when I need the reminder. Not a complete idiot like I want to be on impulse. Preselection and choices, who I let in now and he has to romance me and go all out and prove his love or f*** off lol Different mindset, and I thank him for that, as I’m in control, finally! Love to you soul sis. You and your daughter deserve better; I’m glad you found better. He believed he was exotic and women should feel lucky he is speaking to them. But this text made me really realize that I am not the only one feeling like this and it is ridicilous to feel so. The pain has been immeasurable – the self doubt crushing and it has dimmed me as a person. A good article. I find it hard to stop thinking about how wonderful he was at the start of our relationship, doing lovely things and saying all the right stuff but I realise now that this was all a smokescreen and have found out since that he treated the girlfriend before me almost exactly the same and told her the same things that he did me. Within a matter of minutes, you’ve located photographic proof via social media that not only has he moved on, but he looks ridiculously happy. He still wants to be friends and tries to make time for you. It seems like he’s in the phase of “love bombing” her. We were together for a year and two months and not even a week after our relationship ended, he posts a picture of another girl as his WCW only for me to find out later on he is now with this girl and he’d been sleeping with her the week before we broke up but he’d been talking to her weeks before we broke up. Psychological Tactics To Get Your Ex Back, Lockdown Finally Ended My Relationship With My Gaslighting Boyfriend, Data Shows Marriage is More Beneficial for Men, The core disagreements every couple deals with, To Survive Your Open Relationship, Learn to Be a Little Needy. Yeah, I have him crap about it and i, to him, was to blame for not letting crap go and holding on and bringing it up after the fact, mostly when it would happen again. He even cut his hair and trimmed his beard. I read posts here everyday to remind me to stay silent and move on with dignity.. ps-He was 19 out of 20 on your narcissist list…SCREAMED at me when I confronted him on the cheating. I am the most happiest woman on earth right now. There came a moment when on my birthday the cruel treatments and silent treatments made me question whether life was even worth anything. My ex left after being together for 18 months 2 days later he was with someone else he used to be the biggest lier and manipulative person he made me feel worthless and now in his new relationship his doing everything i wanted him to do with me i just cant believe he replace me so fast sometimes i feel worthless because he so happy and i’m still healing ? Getting back with him was Sept 2015, I actually moved after careful thought and believing him Sept 2016. Why else would she get back with him for the THIRD time if she knows his true nature? I looked at the picture and I was over him in an instant. He said she’s always offering to drive here to see him and low and behold, she is this weekend. You are never alone in this (or ever!). In other words, the new girlfriend is worried about the Ex and the Ex is worried about the new girlfriend. This happened almost a year ago and I haven’t heard from him ever since I cut ties with him. I needed emergency surgery to have a tumor removed. You are never alone – we are here for and with you. Thank you so much for taking the time to share ?? My ex has a new girlfriend, so why is he contacting me? I no longer feel like I’m on the brink of calling him at any moment. Just don’t go there. This post is my absolute favorite!!! However, I feel like in order for that to happen then I have to believe people don’t change and my going to treatment will be a waste. He hasent sent one dime in child support. He was still the man or better say boy he has always been. Until then, I guess I’ll just have to wait and see. Long story short: I have seen a recent profile pic of his best buddy on WhatsApp. I do honestly now feel better to be honest it still does hurt and it still difficult specially during the mornings . I feel like my ex-whatever (can’t even call him ex-bf because he never committed) is happier and different now. It doesn’t not sound like there has been any change. have no lingering romantic feelings for my ex, and even though he was a jerk to me for most of our relationship, it hasn’t stopped me from being happy that he’s happy. However, he has yet to mention her to me and i know for a fact she hasn’t been around our child. This is so painful to watch. We have been split up a year now but I was living in our joint house until October 2018 whilst trying to sort out finances and find somewhere to live. Why he called me crazy when I confronted him. And I really want to. It's totally normal to feel uneasy. I am in tears. He seems more mature, happier… WTF?! Thank you for being a part of this tribe. My ex tore me down to nothing, and made me feel small. He’s happy now, she lives 5 mins from him (I lived 90 mins away) works at the same place as him, so it’s all convenient lol and she is a smartass cocky bitch who makes him look dumbass on Facebook! He’s a professor at a tribal college. I promise to you all out there I WILL NOT look at his pic or anything to do with him any more. Still talking. I feel so lost – its been over a year since we broke up and I left because he treated me so badly – it was a mixture of heaven and hell our relationship but only because as Natasha so clearly points out its like being in an emotional desert and then they do something good and its so few and far between the good bits that you idolise it all. He called his ex wife terrible names (she left him a second time – now I know why), said the failure of the marriage has been only her fault, when he cheated on her it was also her fault. Now that I see him in a new relationship, and seemingly happy, I’m battling between being happy for him, and wanting him to show his true self to this poor girl. But damn it’s hard when social media blares in your face. Some day you will be happy again. Thank you for the words of encouragement. To determine if there is a lingering love, check if the text shows the Subtle Signs Your Crush Likes You Through Texting. XO. I felt like you were talking personally to me! (his words), Hi Yeny, I’m going through the same thing, it seems I have easily been replace by another girl. I feel like he has changed. :))) xoxo, I’ve just revisited this article again; I bumped into my ex a couple of days ago shopping with the girl he said (when we were together) that I had nothing to worry about, the girl who is 20 years younger than both of us and who is nearer the age of his oldest son, the girl who was flirting with him when I was in a relationship with him and who likes the older man! One of my best getting an ex boyfriend back tips that I could ever give you is to change something about yourself. He also said he felt low and it had been a struggle for him..wtf! I am continually blessed by you and your wisdom and thank God for you! Bless us all. He wasn’t this showy on social media with me before. He would deny things that just couldn’t be denied. It’s a long story and I won’t bore you but it still hurts. YOU have changed – you flushed what was not honoring and respectful of you. He’s not. Thank you so much for this post. And if you could not run because you thought they would change (this is called the fear of missing out, missing out a chance for being happy with this man) and in the end they left you don’t be sad. He was a manipulative, egotistical, condescending, asswipe but I can’t help but feel angry, betrayed, rejected, and dirty. Two months ago it was I still love you & I miss you but now he is with someone knew. Remember when you first started dating your ex and everything was perfect? My two children seem to love the new girlfriend. We broke up because we wanted a break as soon as we broke up he said he had feelings for his ex. I wanted to scream that this guy is a jerk who really aint what he seems like. My friends told me not to trust him because that was probably the only reason he was feeling sorry now. They seem so happy and I’m so sad. He glorified the fact that I was so independent. My a$swipe just married the girl he left me for 10 months ago and as gut wrenching as it has been, this post puts everything into perspective and let’s me know that I’m not alone and he is not the man that I deserve or deeply desire! Sign up ... Then he gives you a big bear hug for 5 minutes infront of his girlfriend and pays attention to you. At the time, I was devastated, felt that my world was crashing and burning. 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